So you are planning to marry already? WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM, you should be waiting anyways. Don't jump the gun god damn. just because you have feelings for him doesn't mean you should plan this shit 20 years down the road. I knew this chick since kindergarden, extremely good friends, doesn't mean we got married.
Your the reason the divorce rate is so high!
So date him, don't tell anyone till your 18(some states it's ok at 16, like maryland.) and have a good run with him but don't plan to spend the rest of your life with him at this young of an age, either one of you will ruin it somewhere down the line.

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