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**Sir. Lucian Adonis** · #7 (**permalink**) 04-08-2008, 10:14 PM

Well, my first kiss was more spontanios than I ever guessed it could be.

Halloween, at a skate rink,
all my friends (they were all girls) were with their BF's and I was kind of alone, so I was sitting there, and this girl came over and sat right next to me on the little bench, and we started talking, an hour later i was getting someone a soda and she followed me, she asked if I jhad ever been kissed before, when i told her no, she looked shocked beyond imagination and then kissed me.

But here is my advice...

Let him kiss you, just keep your hands to yourself, and make sure he does too.
just sit and smile at him, dont lean to him dont give any inclination that you are going to kiss him, let him do it.

When he finally does close your eyes and let him do the walking.

now if he seems to be chickening out and you really want to kiss him, thats when you let your kiss loose on him.

BUT
I tell you,
the sooner you start going more and mroe hardcore kissing, the sooner he will be looking to other parts of you to kiss.

I have learned this, I became to 'frisky' with my GF and she let me, so now she and I are on the brink of a sexual encounter everyday, and its near devestating.

amazing, but devestating.

so just be mindful of him, and yourself.
only let him go where you are comfortable.

but the biggest thing to remember with your first kiss.
its something you will remember for the rest fo your life,
and it is an amazing time, my first kiss, I loved it, I was off the walls the whole next four months about it, and if the kiss doesnt live up to what you wanted it to be,
DO NOT TELL HIM

it will seriously mess him up.

things will get better over time, SLOWLY.

lol, thats the key, if it all happens at once then it will just get hard.

but good luck.