thank you well he was just generally stating that, that;s what usually would get him hard. but then looked at me and said u dont do that and i wont make u do that. i dunno. i would talk dirty to him, dance for him, on him. Its just i dont have the confidence to do that sober. i always depend on my alochol o give it to me . bad i know. and when im sober i feel stupid when im talkin dirty. ill try and be sexy, but i feel retarted.