yeah, i think she is lying compleatly cause i no how it feels to be abused and erm... most people keep it to dem selves tell only a few people, ive only just told my dad like decemba 07 like so im in the process of going to court and stuff, well yeah it dosnt add up either. i think you shud sit down and talk more to her about it and tell her if she is lying to tell you the truth you are not going to dump her you just want to know the truth.