So are you mad at him or his dad?? He made a joke and you basically flipped out.... so yeah. If we judge people based on what close people say about us (IE Reverend Wright and Obama) then it pretty much undermines the individual person. I wrote an article in the Courier a while back about how everyones perception nowadays revolves around who we identify that person with-and the basic thesis was that it isnt something that should be acclaimed within society