I had the same problem but with my father. I moved to Florida with my mom after 2 years of dealing with his shit. I feel very sorry for you. I highly doubt its your fault. Dont for a second think that. Hes clearly a fucking sick bastard and needs mental help. Theres no reason to treat someone the way your explaining it. How old are you? Do you have the legal right to move away and live with your father? I mean I can understand that you would feel that your betraying your mother that way but you need to do what is best for you. Thats what I did. Im very happy now living with my mom. Sadly I dont speak to my father anymore but I really dont care. He didnt love me so the fuck do I care if I speak to him. Anyway... he hasnt hit you or your brother has he? If he does call the police right away. Put that fuckball in prision!

I really dont know what else to tell you. Try getting out of the house when ever possible. Thats what I did and it worked to an extent.

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