Help me please. My step dad came about a 2 years ago and it was alright at first but then he started swearing and shouting at us and telling us to f off constantly for the tiniest of things. And it wasnt like a joke he woulg get right up to your face and call you a bitch or whatever. And he does it loads to my younger bro (11) and i step in to protect him and then he shouts at me and i ruin everyones day...I phoned my dad about what was going on and my dad phoned my step dad and told him to stop it but my step dad told him to f off and had a go at me for phoning my dad...then one day my mum got really stressed and said she needed to go to hospital and i was alone in the house with her and she was really emotional and having a panic attack then my step dad came in and told me to shut the f up because i was crying and he made me stand out side with my baby brother in the dark until he and mum had worked out what was upsetting mum. and apparently its all my fault. apparently mums upsetbecause we all argue and apparently its me who starts all the arguments because i step in to protect my brother.Last year a stranger in spain tried to kiss me and my mum wants to go there again but i really dont want to because it will bring beck memories...but my step dad would get so angry...and i have tole my step dad i dont like him telling us were arses and stuff and he just said 'write me a rule book then' and 'if im that much of a bastard i may as well leave'i was wondering if maybe im coupletely wrong because he says hes treating us like adults...i dunno maybe i should jst leave because i make stuff more confusing for everyonethanks